People like to give gifts that will please, naturally, and it's awfully nice to know what the couple needs and what they'd be especially pleased to have. Everyone knows the stories about brides who receive sixteen teapots, ten casseroles, thirty-three toasters, and two dozen teaspoons but no forks and knives. One graceful way to let friends and relatives know what it's appropriate to bestow is for the bride to enter her name, needs, and preferences in a bridal register; this can be a real service to family and friends as well as bride and groom.
These days, the bride (hopefully with the groom's input) can register for the china, silver, and crystal patterns she's selected. But that's not all. She can also register for linens, cookware, cutlery, appliances, and more -- whatever she needs, in other words.